Self Care and why it’s important

The older I get, the more important I am coming to terms with how important self care is. It’s easy to forget when you have daily responsibilities such as work, finances, motherhood, relationships to manage to lose yourself in the mix. I recently moved from chicago to Texas, it will be a year in December.… Continue reading Self Care and why it’s important

Is A Degree Worth it Anymore?

Oh that wonderful piece of paper that society has presented to the world as a career securer and foundation for employment.  You graduate high school, find a college to attend, and then finish with a degree which will open doors to financial security and opportunity, and a good job after completion right? Well what they… Continue reading Is A Degree Worth it Anymore?

Its Alright not to have all the Answers……Really….its ok.

One of the hardest things for me to admit is that I may not have all the answers!  If you are like me I pretty much tread through life with no major issues until you have to learn to compromise and prepare for the big shit like marriage, children, financial struggles, setbacks etc. I was… Continue reading Its Alright not to have all the Answers……Really….its ok.

Are we the Same After Motherhood?

The answer for me is yes and no.  Motherhood  is one of the best blessing that God can allow, but it is also one of the most self sacrificing as well.  When they say you give up some of the things you use to do, as the mother it is especially true.  Now dont get… Continue reading Are we the Same After Motherhood?

Really?! Dwayne Wade ‘s Son Wants to Be A Girl at 12???

Why? I don't understand how people are supporting this young man at the age of twelve identifying himself as a girl.  Going as far as changing his name to Zaya?  Its insane to me because at twelve years old, your mind is not even developed enough to make that type of decision. Twelve year old… Continue reading Really?! Dwayne Wade ‘s Son Wants to Be A Girl at 12???

Motivational Quotes to Get You Through Tough Times

Today I wanted to share some of my favorite life quotes and why they are my favorites.  I like to discuss diverse topics on my blog and this topic is about inspiring quotes and the message behind it. Sometimes reading these quotes makes you think, and helps you to relate them to your own life.… Continue reading Motivational Quotes to Get You Through Tough Times

How to Stay Positive While Waiting For Mr. Right

It seemed like yesterday that I was a single woman, exhausted with dating, and had reached a point where I was over it! It seemed like the older to became, and the more you obtained on your own, the options got smaller for potential candidates that would work long term. Now that I am married,… Continue reading How to Stay Positive While Waiting For Mr. Right

The Importance of Mental Health

This has been a topic in the media lately.  Let me know if you agree. There has been quite a few celebrity's in the past few years committing suicide.  When you think of a celebrity lifestyle with fame, fortune and money, an average person such as myself would feel like whats there to be sad… Continue reading The Importance of Mental Health

Recommended Author of The Month

I want to share an amazing author with you!  She writes books for the soul and that provides a sense of awareness for each person as an individual.  Her books are motivational and encouraging, which everyone needs time to time. I have personally read "Thirty" which is a definite recommended read.  I also am currently… Continue reading Recommended Author of The Month

Colorism

This is a topic I wanted to discuss because I have seen quite a few articles mentioning the continued up rise in Colorism and specifically in the entertainment world. Id first like to address what Colorism is, I describe it as color preference within a group of people that have the same nationality. I am… Continue reading Colorism

Are They Really The One For You?!

Is there a such thing as finding "The One?" Does God have a person out there that is equally matched for you.  Someone that will help you become your BEST self and fulfill all life's wonders.  When we are kids everything seems like a fairy-tale and works out for the best. Princesses find their prince… Continue reading Are They Really The One For You?!

Can You Really Be Born That Way?

Ladies and Gentleman we are now living in the age of freedom to be who you want to be. Regardless of who likes it, people can make their own choices about who they love. I recently read and article that they will be teaching children in school about LGBT and what it means.  If your… Continue reading Can You Really Be Born That Way?