Tips For Safe Online Dating

I wanted to write about something that has been mainstream in human culture for many years now.....ONLINE DATING!  As we all understand, times get rough and with busy lives and working, its hard to just go out and meet people.  After college, typically we are working, or if your a single mother, you have children… Continue reading Tips For Safe Online Dating

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Staying Positive When the Grass looks Greener!

Hey Dolls! I felt like talking about the grass looking greener on the other side this morning!  Its so easy to look at someone else and say "they have it together, or they are lucky" but one thing never to forget is that people only show and tell what they want you to know.  Nothing… Continue reading Staying Positive When the Grass looks Greener!

The “Baby Mama Syndrome”

Hey ladies, I decided to discuss briefly a topic that has become concerning over the past few years.  Lets discuss the "Baby Mama" syndrome.  I am not mother yet, and have been married for two years now.  I always wanted children but knew that if I got pregnant before marriage, there was a high percentage… Continue reading The “Baby Mama Syndrome”

Why are we still calling it…..Reality TV??!

At some point it has to stop.  This fake world of trying to get famous quick or become relevant again.  That is what I call fake TV aka Reality TV.  It really has got out of hand!I use to watch reality TV when I was a teenager when it first became popular into my adulthood. … Continue reading Why are we still calling it…..Reality TV??!

Is this Free Will or was I Destined to Go Through This?

I am not the most religious person, let me start by saying that.  I always wondered how this THING called life is set up.  As I got older, things start to become more clear. Life is a journey, not a marathon. Every person has been through ups and downs, and has a set journey specific… Continue reading Is this Free Will or was I Destined to Go Through This?

Why Stress….We Cant Control The Outcome?!

This thing called LIFE I tell you.....don't it feel like sometimes if it isn't one thing, its another?  You can have a set of great weeks in a row, and sail through life on cloud nine, then BOOM! Some bullshit shakes up your world and you have to figure out how to keep it together.… Continue reading Why Stress….We Cant Control The Outcome?!

Be Smarter Than Your Smart Phone

Does a smart phone take away the mental requirement we need to do some of the most basic functions? When was the last time you had to remember a phone number by heart? 1989? I ask this because are we so dependent on our smart phones that we cant remember close family and friends phone… Continue reading Be Smarter Than Your Smart Phone

Controlling Your Thoughts…..Hard!

Yes we all know that if you can control your thoughts, you can control your actions. When we think of an action, typically the body wants to react to those thoughts. These thoughts can make us make a good or bad decision based on if the thought is positive or negative. We all know this… Continue reading Controlling Your Thoughts…..Hard!

Are You Two Faced? Better Yet Three Faced?!

The Japanese say that everyone has three faces. One that we reveal to the world. This is the person you project when you meet new people, and before anyone gets to know more about you. Sometimes the image you want to portray if your not comfortable in your own skin. This is the mask that's… Continue reading Are You Two Faced? Better Yet Three Faced?!

The Serial Texter!

One of the most annoying things I remember about dating is the serial texter. This is someone who will keep in touch with you by text but never call or commit to a date. It's the worst. Most of the time they are either playing the fence with you, or already have a situation and… Continue reading The Serial Texter!

The Advantage

Imagine being born into a group of people that were considered the majority. Living everyday life as a non threat but of the purest race.  Being given opportunity because of the color of your skin.  Born into wealth because your ancestors were slave masters many generations ago.  In most work and academic settings, most of… Continue reading The Advantage

Rejection is God’s Protection…..So You Don’t Say?

I remember hearing this phrase growing up that "Rejection is God's Protection."  When you hear this as a kid or young adult, you don't find much meaning to it.  What I mean is....you really don't care what the message is, you just WANT what you Want in that moment, and will be willing to do… Continue reading Rejection is God’s Protection…..So You Don’t Say?

Surprise Pregnancy? Fellas must read….

Fellas, I understand most of you all had a time in your life where you were intimate with a woman, and probably got caught up in the moment  without using protection,  Thus resulted in either a pregnancy scare or pregnancy.  This event is life changing for both you and the woman.  In most cases its… Continue reading Surprise Pregnancy? Fellas must read….

Are we Living to Work?

This is an interesting topic and honestly, it depends on how you look at life, specifically your life and circumstances.   The first question is Are we living to work?  Without humans working daily to make the everyday function of life habitual we will be living like the Indians right?  There would be no buildings, fast… Continue reading Are we Living to Work?

Ways to Stimulate Personal Growth

I felt compelled to share something motivational today! Trust we may not know why God gave us a particular journey, but always trust the answers come to you in the end, and where he is taking you is beautiful! I really enjoyed the post below and found it helpful when trusting your journey! ENJOY!  

Having a Peace of Mind….

What does this mean?  Does it mean not to have a worry in the world, or to let your mind wander to a place with no despair?  I really cant put a definition to it but I will say there is NOTHING like having a peace of mind.  When I look up the googled definition… Continue reading Having a Peace of Mind….