I had a discussion not to long ago about child support. It was a male to be exact. He mentioned that woman abuse the child support system. He feels many woman put the man on child support out of spite. He feels child support is a way to punish the man. If a man is taking care of his children and involved in their life, two parents should be able to communicate and co parent together regardless if they are together or not. It becomes about the best interest of the child. He feels this is not the case with a bitter mother.
Child support is to make sure the children are taken care of by the parent who had full custody. Everyone’s income is different so there is no guarantee what type of home the child is being raised in. This differed person to household. Child support ensures that there is some form of additional money to the parent who has full custody. In an ideal situation, two mature adults can come together and form some agreement of payment or bill payments without emotions or feelings involved. Why? Because it’s about the children at this point. Some women have decided not to put the man or at times woman on child support for whatever reason. There are many who do and have because they don’t want to deal with the man, or the father doesent want to do his part financially. Anytime the courts are involved it can get ugly and expensive. It’s just an all around ugly experience to have a child or children with someone you no longer respect. It’s best to work together, make life easier and come up with a plan to best financially take care of the children. Thanks for reading! What do you think?