Hey ladies and Gents! I wanted to give you all some inspiration this morning! Always always keep a personal goal list. Even if you are married. Never forget about who you were/are as an individual. It may be easy to get lost in the noise of a relationship, marriage, becoming a mother or father and forget the personal goals you ave striven for yourself. Remember……not all marriages and relationships last, so who will you be once thats over. I am not saying that you should look forward to the worst, I am just saying be realistic about how LIFE works. Also if your a parent, remember children grow up, and become their own personal, with their own goals, wants and feelings which can make you feel alone when they are no longer with you everyday or grow up to be independent. With this being said, be sure to take note of personal goals both financially, and personally. I like to write mine down, its something about seeing them on paper that makes me feel a bit more connected to them. Many folks like to make notes in the smart phone or computer. Whatever works best for you, keep track and give yourself a realistic time frame. For example, I been wanting to buy a house for the past year, and it seems like every time I get close there is a setback, financially. These the thing about marriage, you both have to work as a team, and if one needs more time, you MUST compromise.