If its one thing I cant stand is a BITTER BABY MAMA. I understand, especially being a woman, we have these emotions and they take over our better judgement at times. This is what causes the problem. A baby mama in my opinion is a woman with a child that is not married or in a relationship with the father. Bitter is when you are holding on to past emotions about a situation and have a hard time moving beyond those feelings. If you put both of these together, you have a BITTER BABY MAMA.
Most women look forward to one day starting a family, and having a child. Most women want to get married first, and or be with the father before a child is born. IN REAL LIFE unfortunately we have become accepting of single parent hood, and its now normal as going to sleep every night, that its dominant for most single women. Although women do not like being in this situation, if the father is not with you, you have no choice if you decide to continue to bring a child in the world, or if you divorce and there are children involved. Usually if you were married, your not considered a BABY MAMA, but an Ex Wife, so women tend not too be as bitter if he at least married you (from my findings).
BITTER BABY MAMA’s find it hard to put their emotions aside for the betterment of the child because they are still holding onto what transpired with the father. It can be years and a woman may not let the child see the father, or be around the fathers family, wife/ new girlfriend etc. The child grows up not knowing whats going on, then is confused and has questions later in life because this was hidden or kept away from them. It only hurts the child when two parents can get on the same accord. Its selfish, and typically the mother holds the most control. Hurt runs deep, and can take over better judgement. I am not a baby mama, but know men who are dealing with this situation. I can’t give advice because I am not in those shoes, but it really does hurt the child and not fair to them in the long run. I pray that all children can not go through parents that do not see what matters most. THE CHILD. Thank you for Reading!